Teen dating etiquette
A local band played and we danced the afternoon away.Youth club was an ideal opportunity to meet others in a supervised environment.Because the boy had paid, it was presumed the boy had the right to hold the girl’s hand or put his arm around her during the movies.Girls knew that as much as they liked a boy, they should not permit a kiss on the first date.The boy was expected to call and collect the girl from her home, usually meeting the parents.
Closer to the time of the date make-up had to be applied, this usually taking a long time, as everything had to be exactly right.
If she does that, he should run for the hills, LOL! He always paid unless I insisted that it was my turn to treat, which I did do occasionally and think women should do when dating. I never really expected him to pay in the sense that I never demanded it, but I did expect him to at least offer and not just stand there and look at me when a bill came or when the cashier asked for the money, LOL! When he took his girlfriend out he did pay, even going out with friends. We stressed group dates and if they went out by themsleves it was at our house or hers, her parents were always home, they were very overprotective of her. :o) When I was dating, we often went dutch - I knew that the guys didn't have any more money than I did, and splitting the cost meant that we could go to nicer places than if one person had to pay for everything.
He used his parents' car to drive us around at first and then I got my license and got a car and decided that I would foot the gas bill and drive us around on dates. At times she also paid for him, she would call, say Hey let's go do xyz and then she paid. I would say that he should expect to pay, although he may not always.
He also had to hold open the door of any building they were entering.
He was expected to pay for the movie tickets and any after movie refreshments.